Maid of dishonor

So, my fiancé discussed who we wanted in our bridal party and I choose my best friend of about 7 years to be my maid of honor, unfortunately my best friend of almost half my life was so disappointed that she showed no excitement at all when I asked her to be a bridesmaid instead, she then didn’t speak to me for a month and when I reached out to her finally I asked her if she was mad that she wasn’t the maid of honor and she said yes, threw a huge fit and basically told me she needed time to speaking to me to heal because she was so hurt. Has this happened to anyone before??