Maid of Honor advice please

Hi
Asking for advice or direction I should say?
I was recently married and asked my best friend to be my MoH. All I asked for her was just stand next to me on altar and didn't expect her to do anything else.She took maybe 1 or maybe 2 days off to be there for rehearsal and the wedding. Bridal side all flew to wedding location. I paid for her hotel stay.
6 months later, it's her turn to get wed. She asked to me to be her MoH and I said yes. This is my first time being in bridal party so not sure what I is expected of me as MoH. She just said she wants me to relax and have fun but I am wondering should I be thinking ideas to plan for her bridal shower or bachelorette party or even both?
Just little more background,yes since I recently was wed, I am definitely giving lots of tips and advice on planning. We both plan our weddings without hiring planner.
Not only recently wed, i am going on honeymoon 2-3 months before my friend's wedding. I am also kinda expecting in-laws to visit a month after honeymoon.Basically I am in really tight on finance that I am not sure I could "host party or shower"And because of days I asked to be off from work already, I can't afford to ask more days off or gotta be really conservative as possible.
Me and my friend live in different city. I would have to fly to go to her wedding. Same state though.
If other bridesmaids pops Q about bachelorette party or bridal shower, I am happy to help planning but I don't think I would start one....if cost becomes too high, I may have to decline attending.
Bride isn't expecting bachelorette party or bridal shower.