Hi all!
I'm not really sure what to do in this situation. The past month my MOH has been a bit distant (we would text pretty much every day prior to a month ago).
A couple of weeks ago I wanted to check in with her to see how she was doing... If balancing work & the kiddos was going smoothly since school just started back up. She told me that things weren't going well for her health wise but she was going to be making some changes. I told her I was sorry she was going through this & if she needed anything or to talk I'm here for her.
A weekish after that I reached out to check in on how she was doing & all she said was "All good". I left it at that, it seemed like she didn't want to discuss whatever was going on.
Yesterday I got word that my dress had come in and I asked her if she was free this weekend, thinking if she wanted to come with. She responded that no she can't and that she has to withdrawal from the entire wedding actually, that it wasn't going to work out.
I'm pretty thrown off by this. I don't plan on replacing her & I empathize with whatever she has going on. She not wanting to talk about it and her being so cold towards me does really hurt.
I really don't know what to do at this point. Do I reach out again that I'm here for her? Leave it and stay silent? This seems like the end of a 15 year friendship.
Any advise would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!