Hey all!
I need to vent! I get married tomorrow and my maid of honor backed out! She is the sister to the groom. It all starts because of the rehearsal dinner 2 days before the wedding. We reminded the bridal party about it and the groom’s sister texted the groom saying she isn’t going to the rehearsal dinner. We already placed in food orders 7 days before so clearly we are already upset, she already confirmed she was going and picked her meal. She said she told their mom she wasn’t going and that their mom should have told us (instead of texting us directly?).
anyway my fiancé got pretty upset with her and told her she is an adult and has responsibilities and already confirmed that she is going. She said “I’m not coming, I’m also not going to the wedding, good luck finding another brides maid!! 🙂” so in less than an hour I found her replacement, not difficult at all. Now his family is angry at us that we replaced her and “she’s out 200 bucks!” That’s her fault. I need to make sure people are going to show up! And it honestly really hurt my feelings that she so easily backed out 2 days before the wedding. It gets better because now his whole family is harassing me on Facebook (I blocked them all). Am I crazy? I never gave them a hard time, she never came through as a “MOH” and honestly never stepped up, I never had high expectations or strict limitations on what I needed them to do. I just needed them there for the rehearsal and wedding day. Why is his family backing her up? Im just feeling attacked here, one day before the wedding.
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