Hello, coming on here to get un biased opinions. I have my best friend of 8 years who is taking the role of maid of honor. I’m very diss appointed as she has been picking fights with my other bridesmaids and coming to me with every single problem. She started a group chat with the other bridesmaid to begin my bachelorette. She made the chat and never wrote anything else in there for weeks. She came to me saying she really had nothing to add as she had no money . So all the other girls were ready to purchase tickets and for her not to feel left out I offered to buy her flight and she could pay me back as she could. She agreed and we purchased ticket and she seemed to have felt better afterwards. Several weeks go by and my other bridesmaids that I’m very close to , mentioned having a hard time planning as my moh is never present and always says she busy when they try to make final decisions . I had to talk to moh about it and she said she’s just been so busy and really didn’t like talking to them as they would talk about outfits and that didn’t matter to her. Just a straight Debby downer and complaining about everything. Keep in mind she’s always posting online and she works from home and I know she responds when she wants to. After the talk she acknowledges she has been singling herself out because she can’t connect with those girls and doesn’t care to be there friends . Knowing they are my good friends but ok I said that’s fine I don’t expect you to be friends just be cordial. After weeks I thought the issue was fixed. She sends me a message saying “I’m done with the chat. You take over. I don’t give a damn I don’t want to be apart of it” I ask her what happened and no response. I ask the other bridesmaids and they tell me she got upset because a bathing suit cover up. She liked a certain coverup and another girl threw a suggestion for something else. She tells the girl in the chat that her idea is irrelevant because she likes the other coverup, and for her to stop changing her ideas. So of course the other bridesmaids got upset because they said her responses are always so negative and very hostile. I’m then added on the chat to try and calm things and she gets upset because I stayed neutral. She writes me and tells me I never have her back and that she doesn’t want to be apart of anything anymore. That I haven’t made her feel like moh and done nothing to make her stand out from the other girls. I don’t know what she wants me to she has the title? I tell her at this point I don’t want her to even go to the bachelorette because of all the drama she’s caused. She then said idc what you want I’m going I’ve already spent money on xyz. There is so much more, but that sums up the biggest issue. I just feel like this whole time I’ve had to make her comfortable. She’s thrown crazy suggestions that she wants her moh dress to be different color and style because she wants to stand out even though that’s not what I want . I want all the girls wearing the same dress. She’s been so negative about everything and seems like I’m having to accommodate her and make her happy. Keep in mind k haven’t asked of anything to her besides stay cordial with the girls. I told her many times I would help financially with bachelorette planning etc. I’m not doing a bridal shower so she has nothing to do there. I haven’t asked her to do anything besides that and she refused because she doesn’t like the girls. note : the girls have done nothing to her they’ve been nothing but nice to her. But she just says they are not her vibe apparently. Opinions?
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