Hello!
So I'm getting married November 2021! I had originally planned for my best friend to be my maid of honor but now she lives out of state. I don't want her to have to worry about all the Maid of Honor duties while living in another state. She is already throwing out bachelorette party ideas and trying to figure out how to do this being so far away. I still want her as a bridesmaid and to be apart of all the planning process. How do I nicely tell her she's not the Maid of Honor but a bridesmaid yet I still very much value all her thoughts, opinions and help?