Hi there!
So here is my predicament - I am getting married next June and I always thought my college roommate/best friend would be my maid of honor. We have even discussed this before, so she definitely thinks that she is going to be my maid of honor. I have a younger sister who is 7 years (almost 8 years) younger than me, and so I always thought I would make her a bridesmaid since she was younger and I felt like maid of honor was a better role for my friend (this was hypothetical talk, before I was actually engaged).
Well now, I’m thinking I want my sister to be my maid of honor. She’s 17 now and we’ve grown much closer. Although my college roommate is still one of my closest friends, we don’t talk as much as we once did because of distance and jobs (life). I also have come to realize a maid of honor doesnt need to be the person who helps plan everything, that can be the bridesmaids in general.
I don’t want to hurt my friends feelings or let her down by not choosing her, but I also think it would be really special to have my sister, even though she is younger. What do you all think? Have you had a similar situation? Thank you in advance for your feedback!
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