The first thing I did when I got engaged was pick out the colors and the theme of my wedding. I’m having a Texas/Rustic wedding in the summer of 2022 and the colors will be navy blue and sunflower yellow. The venue will be indoor/outdoor on a ranch. But there’s a problem...
Little background on what’s been happening..
I am 25 years old and have recently received my bachelors degree and have had the blessing of being with a man like no other, who I’ve been with for four years and have been happily engaged to for a year now. Yet, I have a hard time celebrating anything around my sister who can’t seem to be happy for me and has to belittle everything from my degree to the proposal/wedding and more since the proposal .
One day my sister had the bright idea to ask me when was I going to have kids...and proceeded to say “like never?!”
I always wanted to have kids around the age of now, 25, but doesn’t seem to be as realistic as I thought at this moment.
- Why do people ask this
- I always wanted to get married first
- I want to be able to provide for my children as does my fiancé, but I’m having a hard time finding a job during this pandemic, if I may add which in (MY OPINION) probably isn’t the greatest time to have a baby.
My sister goes around talking behind my back with my own mother, other family members, and some friend of hers. Feeding them basically how terrible of a person, sister, daughter, aunt I am.
But I have to say my favorite is how I have to hear from my own 12 year old nephew that my sister is talking to one of her friends about how
“Why does she want a country wedding”
“She doesn’t even like country music”
“Well I’m just wondering who this wedding is really for”
Btw she is my maid of honor because I thought at least she would be one person who would care about me the most on one of my biggest day. I was wrong, all she wishes to do is criticize and belittle every little thing I say or do. This was obviously a huge mistake. All of this negativity really seems to have kicked off when I got engaged.
I was thinking about honestly making some else my maid of honor but how do you take back that after you have already told them...
Please help..
