Maid of Honor issues

I had trouble deciding between my sister and my long time best friend for MOH. My friend made a huge deal about wanting to be MOH and I ended up choosing her after talking with my sister because she was perfectly fine with it and has a very busy plate as it is, my friend did not at the time because she was taking a gap year from school. Then last minute she decides to actually go ahead with nursing school instead of taking off a year. It was so last minute it makes me wonder if she just didn’t tell me until after I already made her MOH so she looked like the better option because she wanted the “position” so bad..


Obviously her school is way more important than my wedding, that’s a no brainer. But it’s just annoying because every time I send her pictures of stuff for advice she never replies. She claimedshe was going to be sooo involved in helping me plan but can’t seem to give simple opinions on stuff. I’ve been trying to set a day to hang out with her so we can look at stuff, talk about things, etc., and she just says she’ll let me know when she knows her schedule and then never lets me know anything. Like I said, I don’t expect her to put my wedding before her future career, I just wish I would’ve known she was going to be so busy before choosing her for MOH.