Hey everyone! I'm sure plenty of you have been or are currently going through your own wedding headaches. I recently ran into my first little incident and I could really use your alls input and support. Long story short, my maid of honor is my stepsis and she just announced that she's pregnant and is due right around my wedding date. Don't get me wrong I'm very happy and excited for her (she has only been/ know her bf for about a 2 months though, so it is a little odd that they immediently got pregnant). She told me I'm not sure how it'll be for my wedding, and she's assuming she might not be able to come. She didn't officially step down as my maid of honor....but trust me when I say she could honestly care less about my wedding. I don't care if she's pregnant or not when she's standing next to me, I'm more worried that she won't be able to come! For me personally it would seem incredibly rude if she dropped out last minute and I had to just throw in a back up super quick (which honestly I just wouldn't do). My best friend has mentioned many times that she would love to step up and fill that role. (Please keep in mind that my best friend and I have only known each a year). Would it be weird to have someone you've only known a year as your maid of honor? When I first picked my step sis she was so excited and I just knew I made the right choice...but now that she's pregnant she is so distant and doesn't want to talk about anything wedding. I totally understand that she needs to focus on her and what's best for her family, but like she had no sympathy towards me at all. Not even hey I know this might mess up some wedding plans you had, but we'll get through this and I'll be here to help when I can. Ugh that ended up not be such a short story, sorry. What are your thoughts? If she wasn't my maid of honor, I would have her as a bridesmaid....I'm not saying I'm firing her because you can't fire people from your wedding lol. Just more of she seemed to not want to be my maid of honor and when I asked her, she just said I just don't think I'll be able to be there for you because of the baby. I feel like I'm losing my mind haha I just want to make the right and respectful choice for everyone....but I am hurt by her not caring about my wedding anymore.
Feel free to vent on here too, it's always nice to know someone else is going through trouble and you're not alone.