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Maid of honor trouble

Darrian, on December 29, 2021 at 8:51 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 3

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I need advice! Im having two maid of honors. I planned on getting all of my girls together for lunch to ask them. My one maid of honor is a long time friend that is expecting it and the other is not expecting it at all. I feel conflicted because I’m not sure how to ask them so that they both know they are my maid of honors without spoiling asking them with everyone else. Should I tell Them beforehand that I’m asking them, should I just Let them open their gifts and find out together then? After they open them should i announce that they are both my maid of honors?

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Jessi · on December 30, 2021 at 9:09 AM
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Can you ask everyone, including bridesmaids, separately beforehand and then go out to lunch with everyone to celebrate after? Asking everyone at once could make it hard for someone to say no if that's what they would prefer since they could feel pressured. That would also completely eliminate your issue because both would have already been asked to be a MOH and that way it can be talked about at lunch.
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Lisa · on December 30, 2021 at 9:47 AM
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I agree with Jessi! Asking everyone separately ahead of time would take away pressure for anyone to say yes if they weren't comfortable, and the lunch would be an awesome celebration of your wedding party!
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Cece · on December 30, 2021 at 10:02 AM
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I agree with the previous statements. Asking everyone separately, 1-on-1, is more special and personal, and it takes the pressure off them to say yes in a public setting. I would make the effort to ask each one of them individually, then host a bridal party lunch for all of them afterward, where you can give each of them their gifts.
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