My sister asked me to be her maid of honor for her wedding which I said yes too. She also has three other ladies who is standing up with her. Well I found out I was pregnant and I’m due a week before her wedding. We both discussed options which we are okay with. I told her I’d help her as much as possible but, my main focus was this pregnancy. Well when it came to planning the bachelorette party, her one bridesmaid basically was calling all the shots and making plans I know my sister would hate. We cannot see eye to eye. I ended up just telling them I couldn’t go to the bachelorette party because, it was 2 hours away from my hometown and I’ll be 37 Weeks and I don’t want to ruin that day if I go into labor. Well I found out thru the groom they completely changed the plans without me, didn’t involve me whatsoever and now it’s 10 mins from my sisters house (1hr from me), and completely pushed me out of everything. All the bridesmaid told my sister that this girl should be maid of honor because she’s “a good friend” for planning everything and I wasn’t and never gave any money into the planning and I knew I’m denied them. So I told my sister I’m stepping down as maid of honor and I’ll just be a bridesmaid. I know my sister is completely upset because of this but, I’d rather be on the sidelines then be her right hand man and be hated.
I also told her if my pregnancy run late she should have a MOH and not be missing one.
Did I do the right thing?
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