Ok so I got engaged last summer and my friend INSISTED that she was going to be my MOH because I had been hers. I never asked her she just assumed the position which was fine as I would have asked her however she was 6 months pregnant when I got engaged. She said it wasn't going to be a problem she would just wait as long as possible to buy a dress to keep time to loose pregnancy weight. We set a date, sent out save the dates and were in the process of designing our invitations the week before Christmas as our date was March 21. I get a phone call from her. Saying "I can't do this can you ask someone else to be your maid of honor". I was infuriated. You didn't do anything up to this date. No engagement party no bridal shower no plans for the near future for anything. Merry Christmas to me right? I had already purchased personalized gifts for all members of the wedding party. Our wedding party was already small. A MOH bridesmaid and a junior bridesmaid. I didn't have some huge extravagant group to upgrade someone and she knew that. I feel like this is friendship ruining. We haven't spoken since. Am I being too harsh? Or is she just being selfish. Due to covid our reception has been postponed until March 2021.
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