Hi everyone! I’m getting married in February and am having a terrible time during this planning process. I’m most definitely considering canceling my bridal shower and my bachelorette party due to my MOH (and older sister) being a complete nightmare. Let me just preface by saying she’s always been an incredibly difficult and angry person, but I made her my MOH because she’s my sister. Whenever I ask details about the bachelorette party, I’m always told to “stay out of it”, “you don’t need to know what’s going on”, or “it’s not up to you”. Same type of situation with the bridal shower. Is this true? Is the bride not supposed to know details or have any say so or not know what’s going on? Are they supposed to be surprises?? I know the bridal shower isn’t so much a surprise, but MOH loves to be in control and doesn’t want me or anyone else involved at all. It’s gotten so bad that I don’t want to be around her or talk to her at all from here on out. This includes canceling any event (besides the actual wedding day) where she is hosting/in control which is the bachelorette party and bridal shower. What should I do?? I’ll take any advice/suggestions!
Thank you!!
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