He says that he wants to be involved more during the planning and on the day of the wedding, but I'm honestly struggling a little... What tasks can I give him? He obviously won't help choose my dress or get ready on the day, he has no interest in that and I wouldn't ask. I've already asked him to take over the coordination of speeches and any games/ideas that the guests may have (because he's good at telling people no ) and he has thrown himself into organising my bachelorette weekend like a madman, even though it will be 9 girls and him as a lone guy. I don't want to tell him that I don't need his help, because he offered and I don't wish to rebuff him, but at the same time I want him to have fun and be able to relax. Have any of you been in this situation before? Any ideas for small tasks that he might enjoy, something that won't cost him too much time or overburden him? Something fun? I know that he's a grown up man and can decide if he wants to do something or not, but at the same time I want him to be able to enjoy himself.
