I'm hoping this post doesn't result in negativity though I know I run the risk of attacks here.
The title may make me sound greedy, superficial and ungrateful but I promise I'm not. I'm incredibly appreciative of all ~75 of our guests for joining to celebrate our wedding almost 4 weeks ago. However, I still feel that there's a sort of acknowledgement of the occasion. Perhaps it's because we funded the wedding and rehearsal ourselves, so I'm more sensitive to any reciprocity.
About half of our guests did not/have not given gifts. I know you can't always expect older guests to read the insert, go to your website, and figure out the registry. But this is mostly our friends under 40 years old. So is this a thing now? Attend a wedding, give 0? I've never attended a wedding without gifting the couple something, typically per a registry. I truly don't care if guests would give $5. It's the thought.
Anyone else experience this? Am I a terrible human for being annoyed at these people?