Matron of Honor, Maid of Honor or Bridesmaid?

I think it's perfectly fine to call them all matrons of honor! Or even just bridesmaids. Personally, I detest the idea of "ranking" friendships with titles.

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I agree re: ranking - that's why I had them all as matron's. my mother made a comment about it being less special if they're all matrons so that naturally made me paranoid lol

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I don't think it makes it less special... it just makes it special to more people 💕

I’d just call them all bridesmaids. My feeling is that if you don’t immediately know a particular person is so close she’s definitely MOH, don’t try ranking your friends and just go with bridesmaids for all.

Yep I agree, no need to rank anyone!

"Bridesmaid" keeps it equal for everyone. Some weddings have both a maid and matron of honor, but in your case that would mean a third person gets left out, so don't worry about it!

Matron of honor signifies the person is married. Bridesmaids used to be young, unmarried women but that designation is outdated. I would just have them all be bridesmaids with no MOH if there is no clear choice.