Hi everyone,
My sister is 7 years older than me, never been married and my only sister. We used to be really close but she lives a very different lifestyle that I do (she parties like every day and gets into drama and just hangs with a different crowd) so I have kept my distance but I still go to every of my niece/nephews events and if we ever need each other for something the support is there from both sides. Honestly though, I only made her my MOH because I knew she would be heartbroken if I didn't ask her, and I would never hear the end of it from my mom (who I actually recently cut out of my life cause she's so toxic but that's for another time). But now I'm seeing my sister could care less, she keeps ghosting me for days and bailed last minute on me to go to the bridal expo. Has anyone else gone thru this? I know if this gets worse and she really starts to drop the ball I might have to ask her to step down but I see that resulting in the end of our relationship. Should I just suck it up and deal with it and just remember this about her going forward after the wedding? I don't think I was so much expecting more from her, we just always talked about how she would be my maid of honor one day and I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt as her sister.
