I havent been up here in a while, just wanted some advice from some ladies who are married and have joined families. I am on my way to divorce because I dont know what else to do in this matter. Me and my husband both have children and one together. He treats my children one way which is strict (my kids live with us) and when his kids come over which is once a week he lets them do whatever they want, and my childern have asked me why so I address it to him but it just ends in an argument. He thinks I dont like his kids but thats not the issue, he says mine are spoiled and ask like babies but his are the same so what am I to do, ignore my kids concerns to keep my marriage or seperate because my kids are unhappy? Please help me out ladies