During the unity candle lighting component of our ceremony, My fiance and I are going to light a memory candle for each of our family members that will be there in spirit . .
The names as I have listed are a mix of their familial titles and names, and some with just their names. . Should I be uniform with this pattern ? These names will be engraved on the candle holders . .Should all the names have their familial titles to go with them, or is it okay with this mix/match, seeing as maybe no one will even notice?
Jerry & Walt Smith
Aunt T Dorothy
Grandma Ossie
Aunt Lois
Cousin Viola
James & Mary Shanks
James Shanks Jr.
Hubert & Betty Buchanan
OR
Jerry & Walt Smith
Dorothy Johnson
Ossie Shaw
Lois Wright
Viola Thomas
James & Mary Shanks
James Shanks Jr.
Hubert & Betty Buchanan