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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Messy Updos: Into It or Over It?

Lynnie, on July 31, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Hair and Makeup 78

My official apologies to the royal family for mentioning Meghan Markle twice today - but it's got to be said. I thought intentionally messy buns were just a thing you obsessed over in middle school, but apparently they are also a style you shell out big bucks for on your wedding day! While I'm...

My official apologies to the royal family for mentioning Meghan Markle twice today - but it's got to be said. Smiley tongue I thought intentionally messy buns were just a thing you obsessed over in middle school, but apparently they are also a style you shell out big bucks for on your wedding day! While I'm very glad we've moved away from over-styled prom-like hairstyles (especially for bridesmaids), I'm not sure how I feel about "I woke up like this" wedding day hair!

Tell me what you think! Messy wedding updos - are you into it or over it ?


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78 Comments

  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    Love it!! I would love to be able to pull it off!

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  • Bride107
    Expert October 2018
    Bride107 ·
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    I think it depends on the type of wedding, I would like this for the bridal shower or rehearsal dinner.

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  • FutureMrsS
    Expert October 2018
    FutureMrsS ·
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    Love them! I think they are so much more romantic looking than sleek updos

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  • N
    Savvy June 2019
    Noelle ·
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    I'm into it if it fits the rest of the wedding

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  • Kayla
    Expert January 2019
    Kayla ·
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    I'm not into the overly messy but more of a lose updo I think is beautiful! Definitely something I'm considering for my look!
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  • Rebecca
    Dedicated March 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    I'd say it depends on the style and atmosphere you're going for. I appreciate that an intentionally loose style is easy to maintain, but I'm not a fan of "woke up like this." Loose or whimsical might be better descriptors...

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  • Ingrid
    Super September 2018
    Ingrid ·
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    Mine is a messy bun but also not one that looks like I just woke up out of bed. I love it!!
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  • Bellecose
    Dedicated July 2021
    Bellecose ·
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    I love it for the reception, you need your hair away from your face to relax and dance freely.

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  • E
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Emily ·
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    Nope. It’s just not for me but I do like it on others depending on their theme.
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  • Mmssecrets
    Devoted March 2019
    Mmssecrets ·
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    If you look good and it goes with your vibe go for it. Personally for me a messy updo never works.
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  • S
    Savvy August 2019
    Steph ·
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    I have a pixie cut, and it will be staying short for the big day. But for my BMs I don't know. Not sure I like the idea of them looking like they've been deliberately dragged through a hedge backwards. So probably an over it as far as wedding trends go...
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  • edecker
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    On the fence - i think that Meghan Markle rocked it, but it was put together to become more messy through the day. I think that the picture in the post is beautiful because its a very laid back look, and her dress also looks laid back/natural. For sparkly dresses, big princess dresses, and elegant mermaid dresses, i think that it requires more structured hair then a messy bun...

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  • Victoria
    Devoted October 2019
    Victoria ·
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    Depends on the vibe of the wedding. Personally it’s not my favorite for a bride to have at her wedding
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  • BB-H
    VIP September 2018
    BB-H ·
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    I like "messy" in the sense that it looks loose, not frizzy. The picture looks too messy for me.

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  • Mrs. Jones
    Expert May 2018
    Mrs. Jones ·
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    It depends!!

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  • Katelyn
    Devoted January 2019
    Katelyn ·
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    It depends on the person, i think. Im not really over it but im not really into it either.
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    Savvy August 2018
    Mary ·
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    My best friend did it for her wedding and she says her only regret was her hair. It looked amazing but became very frizzy as the night went on.
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  • Amanda
    Expert August 2019
    Amanda ·
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    I think it’s up to the bride. I personally won’t be doing it for my wedding. A lot of it depends on your dress, the vibe of your wedding, and your style!
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  • Jane
    Expert May 2019
    Jane ·
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    I think it dépends on the wedding, beach setting yes... personally I prefer a polished look

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  • Mrscolón
    Super September 2019
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    I'm into it! You just have to match it well with the dress and the venue style.

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