My fiancé wants an immediate family wedding only and just a dinner afterwards. He thinks all of the fuss and money spent over a big wedding is a waste and does not match our style. I don't have any immediate family and my friends are my family. My friends are very excited for me and I am have a hard time explaining how small this wedding will be. They all want to be there for me but I am very embarrassed to ask them to travel to another state to watch me get married and just have dinner in a restaurant. On top of that I can't invite them all because I can only have so many people at a restaurant for dinner. Any ideas or thoughts on how I should tackle this? So far I have told people it is super tiny and I just don't think it is worth the trip for them to travel for a court house wedding a just a dinner. They still said they wanted to come! The gesture is nice but I don't think I will be able to accommodate them all. Also since I am not having a big wedding I don't think I should let them throw me a bachelorette party, but they are saying they want to. The stress!!! Help, I feel awful.
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