Sorry this in long-winded.. My fiancé and I have always wanted to elope in the middle of the mountains just him, I, and our two pups. We decided to go somewhere in driving distance (we are from Florida and we are driving to Nashville) and invite very immediate family (Moms, Dads, and siblings) but some people are obviously upset. Some people are already asking about how they will send gifts. We are just trying to focus on purchasing a house and not spend $25k+ on a wedding for others.
So, we decided that we would live stream our brief ceremony and cocktail hour. Nobody needs to watch us eat our dinner in real time. Haha.
My question is, I was going to send out an invitation for the 'virtual' wedding. This website we are going to use to live stream it also comes with a gift registry. I am fine with this because some people who won't be attending have already asked how they can send gifts. BUT should I add something to the invitation that says 'your virtual presence is enough for us, please don't feel obligated to send presents'?
Not sure if the whole thing is tacky but I am trying to figure out a way to involve everyone without breaking the bank and going completely outside of what we want as a couple. But I also don't want to pressure anyone into gifts since they can't physically be there..
Any constructive criticism is greatly appreciated.