Hi everyone,
So been having some problems lately with my MIL and not really sure how to handle it. First off let me say that my fiance and his mother do not have a good relationship. She is always blaming him for everything that goes wrong and fails to appreciate all that he does for her.
Sadly, we currently live in her house because we do not have enough money to save for a wedding and pay a mortgage. The other day, my fiance and his mother had a huge fight and after he expressed to me that he really doesn't her to participate in the wedding. He said that she is aloud to be there as a guest but doesn't want her in the ceremony or a mother/son dance.
I respect my fiance decision but the problem comes from the day after their fight my MIL left a check in our mailbox for the rest of the money she said she was gonna give to help with the wedding. I do not know what to do with it. Should I still use her money if she isn't a part of the wedding? Should I return the check and tell her I can't take it? Like I previously said we are struggling to save for a house and wedding so I was really counting on that money for helping. Please help I could use some advice.
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