Hi everyone! Just looking for some opinions/support.
FH and I decided after getting engaged that we wanted an intimate wedding and celebrate with only close friends and family (about 75 guests total). Randomly one day, MIL told us to add her 8 childhood best friends to the list because they helped her a lot and always ask how FH is doing. We are paying for the wedding ourselves and don't want friends of parents there. We already told my parents, who also have best friends that helped our family a lot, and they are fine with it because it's our wedding.
So FH had a call with MIL and explained that, to which she proceeded to cry and yell at him. We thought she understood after the call, but when she was in town visiting this past week, while FH was out running an errand, she brought it up to me and explained how great her friends are and how she can pay for them. I said I will discuss with FH, but now we are really torn between saying yes just to make her happy (since it is only 8 people) and saying no so that we are happy with the wedding we want with only people we care about. What would you recommend and when we respond, should it come from FH or both of us at this point?