My FH's cousin had a very short engagement and got married on a Sunday in April. The wedding was nice enough (cash bar, though), but it was a long drive for us and we went in with FH's parents on a nice shower gift and a gift card + card for the wedding. Just got the thank you card - it's a postcard, which I have no problem with as my STDs were postcards - but the "thank you for coming" etc. part is all pre-printed!! There is no personal note anywhere. Just checking since I'm trying to make sure my etiquette is right for my own wedding, but it's expected that you'll write a nice thank you card to each guest/couple/family that's personalized...right?? Oy.