Ok so recently our daughter got engaged and we began planning we set out with a budget and started shopping while doing so she went to the groom who said they would offer something to help well after the engagement party 6,k and nothing we moved to the wedding again the groom is present for all decision making but still nothing financial. So we then began separating services we separated the transportation kept the venue which includes about another 10k for his family we want to give our daughter her dream wedding but we are torn at what price- while we started out we the offer to help this is now falling down on us and it's hard not to start cutting the groom expenses to make up these cost what do you think are we wrong for this view point