So originally I didn't care at all about what colors my mom or my MIL were going to wear for our wedding. I had no clue that was something people even did until I saw some posts on here. Cue both mothers pestering me needing to know what colors they have to wear. I told them both that it wasn't something I realized I had to choose and that I didn't care. They continued to demand I find their colors, so I went to that website that helps coordinate that stuff to find something. Our groomsmen will be in navy and our bridesmaids in burnt orange - the only colors that were included to match both of those are neutrals, silver, & gold. I told the moms this and also included lighter blue and maybe peach, so they'd have some options. Now they are both complaining about the colors I picked and want to convince me to pick new ones. MIL wants burgundy and honestly I don't like the idea of that at all with our wedding colors, I think it just feels too dark. Personally, I really like the idea of like shimmery silver/gold, but I don't even know how to bring that up to them and shoot down MIL's color without feeling too pushy and like a bridezilla.
The main thing is just like why in the world did you both force me to give you colors but now you're saying they're not right?? Like I know this should be as easy as just telling them to pick what they want, but in a way I'm pretty pissed that they want to fight me on this when they were the ones who demanded it in the first place and I want to be petty and be like well that sucks, you wanted me to pick. I seriously went from not caring at all to caring way more than I should because I'm so sick of hearing their opinions and them trying to change my mind about everything since they don't believe it's "the right choice." Ugh!