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Legend October 2022

Modern or Traditional: Ring Shopping?

Kelly, on October 16, 2018 at 11:05 AM

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When it came to your engagement ring, how did you tackle ring shopping? Did your fiance(e) super traditional and pick it out on their own? Did they have some assistance from your Pinterest account or one of your closest friends? Or did you take a more modern approach by giving your input on what...

When it came to your engagement ring, how did you tackle ring shopping? Did your fiance(e) super traditional and pick it out on their own? Did they have some assistance from your Pinterest account or one of your closest friends? Or did you take a more modern approach by giving your input on what kind of ring you wanted? Smiley ring


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  • Kat
    Expert September 2019
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    He got it in his own. Had it custom made in Australia and shipped to him with no knowledge on my part to what it was. I think I had shown him a Zelda themed ring in the past, but he never remembers anything so I was very surprised he got this one. Needless to say, he did great! And, he didn't get diamonds even though I only mentioned once that I'm not a fan.
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  • Tpatb
    Master August 2019
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    We went looking at different styles together in 2015 so he was able to see what I like..2017 he proposed & my ring was similar to the ones that I tried on & liked.
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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
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    Gotta love Pinterest boards!! I'm so glad you love it, it sounds gorgeous! I love rose gold!

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
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    Love that!! He used it for inspiration but still picked it out himself! What style is it?

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Awww, what a great story! I love that he surprised you by taking you to the store and having you pick out the ring you wanted!

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  • Meghan
    Super September 2019
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    Modern or Traditional: Ring Shopping? 1

    Rose gold with my birthstone (aquamarine) in the middle and diamonds on the sides. I liked rings that seemed inspired by nature and flowers and this one fits that.

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  • Tpatb
    Master August 2019
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    Modern mainly..we went to go look at things I liked & then 2 yrs later he desined a ring but it was basically what I wanted
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  • Futuremrs.lord
    Dedicated June 2022
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    I think its a standard round cut, under one carat.

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  • Gabrielle
    Dedicated October 2019
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    My FH and my mom picked out the ring together. Prior to that, I had only hinted (ok strongly hinted with a few pictures throughout the years lol) at what I would like. I let him know the shape I liked and he went from there. They picked beautifully!

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  • Shayla
    Devoted October 2018
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    Um....we were far from traditional in any way. I bought my own ring. My now-hubby couldnt afford to buy one for me, so I picked out a beautiful Neil Lane set and purchased it myself. It stayed in its box until he was ready to propose. I know that doesnt seem "right" to most, but I dont really care. I got the set I wanted and wear it with pride! If anyone asks or compliments his "choice" on my set, I let him say he bought it.


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  • E
    Expert April 2019
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    Definitely non traditional. He told me he wanted to marry me and started asking what I like. Me being me I already knew I didnt want a diamond center and a laundry list of other things so we went together to pick it out. We ordered it together but he picked it up when it came in so I couldn't actually have it until he proposed with it a few weeks later.
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  • Kelly
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    Wow, it's gorgeous!! Aquamarine is so pretty!

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  • Kelly
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    Kelly ·
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    Lol, strongly hinted love it!! That's awesome, so glad they picked a beautiful ring for you!!

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  • Kelly
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    Kelly ·
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    Omg, so gorgeous!!! I think it's awesome what you did, you picked out something you wanted and didn't expect him to buy it because you knew he couldn't afford it, nothing wrong with that!!

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  • Ingrid
    Super September 2018
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    He took me shopping for our e ring, and we picked out a few options that we both liked. I picked out my wedding ring. Love my set!

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  • Erica-FutureMrsTacchia
    Dedicated October 2019
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    He designed it all himself. I had NO IDEA! Went to Vegas for a kid free vaca and he proposed at the Eiffel Tower! He even called my dad my father(biological) and asked their permission.


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  • N
    Beginner November 2019
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    Traditional
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  • Casey
    Beginner May 2019
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    My fiance asked what styles I liked, so I sent him a pic of a ring I really liked (white gold, pearl in the center with two small sapphires on either side). I told him I liked that design with either blue or green stones flanking the pearl, and left the ultimate color up to him. He ended up picking emeralds, and I couldn't be happier with my ring (even though he bought it in February but didn't propose until almost July lol).

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  • Laura
    Dedicated June 2019
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    I have mine a helpful “suggestion” and he ended up getting the one I wanted but a bigger stone!
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  • Brittany
    Savvy July 2019
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    Traditional! I didn't want to know he was looking, or what it looked like that or that he was planning on proposing. I think it should be a complete surprise.

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