Modern or Traditional: The Night Before?

Traditional! FH actually booked a room at the hotel I'll be staying at the night before (closest one to our venue), but still staying separate

Haven’t thought much about this..honestly it probably will be the traditional route tho considering family and my best friend/maid of honor will be in town.

Modern. I am so glad we shared a room. I cried myself to sleep in his arms (did not have a good time with my guests). If I had been alone I probably would have gotten even less sleep than I did.

Going traditional! My MOH and I are having a bachelorette spa day after the rehearsal brunch and we'll end the night watching Disney movies and having a sleepover!

Traditional. Not sure if we'll be in rooms all to ourselves or with our Wedding Party members just yet, but we definitely will not be bunking together that night, nor seeing each other until I start walking down that aisle the next day.

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That's literally my perfect day/night!!

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Will you be staying at a hotel or do you two live close to your venue!?

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No way! Will you two be avoiding each other in the hotel?!

Our wedding is a few years out but We will be gong with traditional the night before. We already sleep in separate beds unless we go on a vacation. Still going to be tough I love lying next to him

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Hahaha we're definitely going to try! Day of the wedding, we're both going to be arriving to the venue at different times so at least that'll be easy for my sister to coordinate with his BM so we can avoid seeing each other until first looks

Modern. We will be staying together, in the same room.

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We will all be staying in a hotel. My FH, myself, and one of my co-MOHs only live about 1hr 30 mins away from our venue, but the rest of our wedding party, and our families are from a decent traveling distance, and are quite spread out, so many will be staying overnight in a hotel. The wedding party will all be staying in a hotel for the weekend. I didn't want to have to spend too much time in the car on the day of, and I wanted the ease of staying close the day before, especially since we'll be setting up, and greeting our many out-of-town guests.

We went with tradition and decided to sleep apart.

Traditional. I wanted to hang out with the girls.

Probably Traditional, I have quite a few out of town bridesmaids as he has just as many out of town groomsmen, so we'll sleep separately, and it'll make us more excited.

Traditional. FH and I are each getting separate rooms at our venue. my bms and possibly mother (minus my matron of honor) will stay the night with me. he is undecided weather to see if the gm want to stay with him. he worries he wont get any sleep lol and he keeps saying this is his last ever night to sleep alone (except he hasn't slept alone in nearly 5 years so.. lol

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Right?! SAME!! Our wedding is in the morning so that's when the rehearsal will be and the rest of the day will just be us two have a bachelorette party/spa day! And since we both met it's been a tradition for us to binge Disney movies whenever we hang out so it'll be an amazing day/night!!

Traditional! We don’t live together and we don’t sleep together now so We won’t be together the night before. Even ignore we were to have that be a normal thing, I think it’s a good thing to spend the day before the wedding apart so it makes it even more special to see them the next day at the wedding. Builds the anticipation!

Traditional. My bridesmaids and I are getting a hotel the night before

Modern! We rented an AirBnB for the days leading up to our destination elopement. We slept together the night before and also had breakfast together the next morning before splitting up to get ready.