Rant/Vent:
On the group chat with all the BMs, the MOH asks us about our individual budget for the bride's bachelorette party. (I'm not the bride).
I messaged her individually asking "Does the budget include flight and hotel? Or just other amenities?"
She replied: "Just hotel and amenities, everyone is taking care of their own flights. I don't have a hard budget and I can be flexible, but I would like not to spend more than $2k for the weekend."
Me: "My budget would be $500 for the weekend, I'm sorry if it's not a lot"
MOH: "No worries, we'll make it work. But it's good to know out front to see what everybody's budget is to see if me or the bride need to cover for a few things and also make things optional, for example, meals. So far we're thinking of staying at a cabana for around $4k."
Me: "Sounds fun! My husband and I are trying to save for a baby, so my budget is a little tight. But I will help as much as I can."
I don't know if I'm reading too much into it, but I kinda felt like she wasn't really happy with my number. I would also have to pay for the flight on top of the other budget, so it's kind of a lot of money.
I know I could opt out, but I really want to be there for the bride. She even told us she'd rather us go to the bachelorette party instead of the wedding...