moh backing out due to change of bachelorette party

Hi Ladies! My maid of honor and I planned a trip to Costa Rica for two days. One day traveling and one full day there. The flight from where we live is only 3 hours so I went with it. After speaking to my fiancé about it, and some other friends and family members, they said that they didn’t feel comfortable with me going out of the country two weeks before we get married. Especially for just one day. So I decided to speak with my other bridesmaid about possibly changing the plans and staying in the US. She proceeded to tell me that the maid of honor had sent her a text that said that we are having the bachelorette party in Costa Rica here’s the flight information and I hope you guys can make it. She found that to be a little bit rude but went ahead and booked her flight. I Explained the situation to her and decided that I really would like to do something different and go to a resort on the beach instead for a few days. She agreed and said that she didn’t care about losing the flight money because she just wants me to be happy and do what I want to do. I told her that in order to not make anybody feel like they lost out on any funds, that I would be paying for the new trip. After that advice I went ahead and told my maid of honor I didn’t want her to be upset but I’ve changed my mind about going to Costa Rica and gave her the new plans on The new plan. With that, I explain to her that I would prefer to go a week later due to personal reasons. She texted me back and got extremely upset that I did not talk to her first and that I changed everything without discussing it with her first, and then I also changed the dates. I explain to her why I changed my mind, that she was not gonna lose any money, but I could still go on the original dates but it would be easier if we could switch it. She told me she wasn’t able to go on the new dates. And then proceeded to tell me that she wishes me the best of luck and she’s glad that I have my other girls and she will not be at the wedding. I’m not sure if she’s just really upset and just said that or if she really isn’t going to show up. And if that is the case, then I may have lost a really good friend. I think that would be worse than anything she thinks that I did to her. I simply changed my mind and tried to reschedule something with everyone. It’s almost as if she thinks that I pushed her to the side and made my own decisions. Which I am The bride and an adult so I am capable of doing that. No one else seems to see a problem with it. I find it that she might just be self-centered. I guess I just needed to vent. And no, I don’t mind having uneven sides. Just hurt. Does it sound like I did anything wrong?