So my MOH is my long time best friend. And my bridal party has 7 additional bridesmaids so total of 8.
My bachelorette is coming up and I had a bridesmaid reach out to me that she hasn’t heard any plans or surprises for me so she reached out to my MOH if she needed help. My MOH made a amazon wishlist of items needed like decor and what not & I had my sister (1 bridesmaid) and another bridesmaid buy a few items off of it. So my MOH said she was going to divide everything else needed with everyone but the two bridesmaids who already bought stuff said they should be excluded from it since they already bought stuff on the side (which I agree because the other bridesmaids haven’t bought anything to help)
so my MOH said “I bought a lot of stuff too and I’m still going to include myself in the final count) so my sister and the other bridesmaid felt attacked because they feel it’s kinda MOH responsibility to spend more anyways and why would she take a jab on them like that? So all this drama occurred where they told my MOH it’s her duty and she waited last min to even tell them what she needed help with buying. (My bach is 2 weeks away) so now my MOH doesn’t want to go to my bach because of this and I’m honestly heart broken. What do I even say or do? I personally feel like my bridesmaids have a point this should have been discussed months ago because we booked our air b n b almost 5 months ago & they all knew they were going to be in my bridal party for almost a year now.
I just don’t want my bridal party falling apart and want everyone there for my special weekend
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