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moh Drama

Gina, on July 8, 2021 at 2:14 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 4

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Hello all,
So I decided to have two MOH: my sister and my childhood best friend. Unfortunately, my friend has caused a lot of drama during this whole process from the jump and has been very vocal of her dislikes. Now, there’s tension between the two MOH as my friend is the type to plan ahead while my sister is the more laid back type. So there seems to be drama in terms of planning things such as the baccalaureate party. Do I get involved? Or just let it go?

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Latest activity by Jessi, on July 8, 2021 at 3:17 PM

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Becky · on July 8, 2021 at 3:02 PM
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I would stay out of anything unless someone explicitly asks you to get involved - and even then, you're going to want to be very careful not to appear to take sides
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Courtney · on July 8, 2021 at 3:03 PM
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Can I just say I resonate with your situation so much! I recently had to kick my child hood best friend out of my wedding she was my MOH too. I would recommend if this is something they’ve both come to you about try and get them together to try and hash it out for your sake. Texting can get messy. It would be better to do it over the phone or in person. I do hope they work it out for your sake. Sending you love and peace. ♥️
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Janet · on July 8, 2021 at 3:14 PM
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It sounds like your MOH's have clashing personalities. It happens. Not all bridal party members are meant to be friends or want to be. If they cannot figure out how to work with one another and compromise, you can always ask a different bridesmaid to help chime in (or you can if you want), that way there is a neutral field.
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Jessi · on July 8, 2021 at 3:17 PM
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I agree with Janet. Since you've still got quite a while before any events really need to be planned, I think this sounds like more of an issue that one is ready to get some stuff in place and the other doesn't feel like that's needed yet. Someone neutral helping out is probably best to help keep them both on track.
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