So my FMIL is paying for the food and space at the restauraunt, so the majority of the expenses basically. She booked it, picked the menu. Her only thing was she didn't want to plan games or decorations, that my bridal party would have to do that.
I thought it would be a nice group effort.
But I feel like my sister/MOH hasn't taken much initiative. I had to ask her repeatedly to do a simple post on the FB event page. It was rescheduled, so it's been awhile since invites went out, I just wanted her to do a little reminder. I know these things are supposed to be more of a surprise, but my I know how my sister is and she's been acting weird. So I just don't think she has anything planned for games or decor. When I've brought it up, she's only answered my questions with questions. I feel like she's using COVID as an excuse (we don't live in a Hotspot, our area is doing very well now).
I have 2 other bridesmaids and I know they would help more. But I feel weird about it, especially since they've had more financial loss due to COVID (my sis has had none of that).
I'm not sure if I'm overreacting and being a control freak. Is this common with other brides? I've planned the whole wedding (now 2 I guess) by myself, so I hate not being in control over this. But I know how my sister is. And I shouldn't have to ask for her to do this, this is something that is offered. But I guess splitting responsibilities between her and my FMIL was a bad idea because they don't talk (yes I've tried to get them to do so).Has anyone else dealt with situations like this? What do I do? Talk to her or calm down??
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