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moh Trouble

Trinity, on October 7, 2020 at 2:40 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 5

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Hey y’all!
So I was wondering if you had any advice for me. So I am planning on getting married next year and I always thought that my older sister would be my MOH. However in the last couple of years we haven’t been close and have very different lifestyles. I decided that I would feel more comfortable if she was not my MOH and would rather one of my best friends to be instead. Has anyone had a conversation like this? I would still like her to be a part of the wedding but not the person I depend on and can count on with some of the traditional MOH duties.

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Latest activity by Kristen, on October 7, 2020 at 9:04 PM

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Caytlyn · on October 7, 2020 at 2:44 PM
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Ask her to be a bridesmaid. I don't think it really needs to be a conversation unless she has concerns. Realistically, the MOH doesn't have any different responsibilities than the bridesmaids, but if it makes you feel more comfortable, that's your decision to make.
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Melle · on October 7, 2020 at 2:46 PM
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If you haven’t asked her to be MOH yet then it’s fine! Like pp said she can be a bridesmaid or have some other involvement/role
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Kia · on October 7, 2020 at 3:32 PM
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If you never told her she’d be the MOH I think it’s fine if you dont even bring it up and pick someone else. Even if you told her she’s be the MOH, I think it’s still fine lol just pick someone else

I honestly didn’t ask anything of my MOH I just did everything myself. It’s just easier 🤷🏽‍♂️
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Maggie · on October 7, 2020 at 3:36 PM
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From my own experience and from everything I have read here, it makes the most sense to choose bridal party members based on current relationships, not on past or hoped-for-in-the-future relationships.
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Kristen · on October 7, 2020 at 9:04 PM
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Ya know I was in a wedding and the groom had a good friend over his brother as his best man. I mean you gotta do what is best and if realistically you two are not that close but you have a good friend that is then maybe it is expected.
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