Okay so I've seen multiple places where people say that the only responsibility of the MoH/BM is to show up in the dress/tux picked by the bride/groom. When did this become the norm?
Traditionally, all the pre parties are supposed to be planned by them. Growing up, I always invisioned doing the DIYs side by side with my bff (who of course would have been my MoH). Its just amazing to me the number of times that people start saying that these responsibilities are not supposed to go with these roles.
I personally think its common courtesy that if you do expect these things, you state that when you ask the person to fill that role. However, I was wondering what the general thought is as to why that change has taken place and why so many people feel so strongly that these roles no longer have these responsibilities.