Since I began wedding planning Mom and I have had a long standing battle. I understand many emotions are involved for many people but unfortunately I have felt little support from her. I started holding things back and redirecting alot of my conversations elsewhere. She has instilled anxiety in me as she thinks I have done no planning and should start. Little does she realize I have most things taken care of. She has made me feel like I was wrong for my thoughts and opinions even though I know I have done nothing wrong. When it comes to the guest list she cannot have the discussion without an arguement. My fiance has a small family and I have a larger one. She is focusing all her efforts on inviting people I could honestly do without. She is willing to compromise but only after she has dragged most topics through the mud first. I find the whole situation hurtful and disrespectful and though she says she is going it for me, her "only daughter" and that she wants things "perfect" she is only turning this experience into something negative between me and her. Idk how to move forward with her as I have exhausted all my efforts to make peace. Suggestions appreciated.
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