So my mom has graciously offered to help pay for our wedding but now she has fought me every step of the way making the entire planning process completely and utterly miserable. so our latest issue now has been the guest list. originally we were planning to have a bigger wedding with 125+ guest and we recently decided to move it to a smaller venue where we can only have 60 guest maximum. So now I guess I should say that my mom and my dad who aren’t together, have been in competition with each other since I was little. The latest battle between them has been money. Primarily with my mom trying to cause unnecessary drama.
My mom is upset that my dad as of yet has an offered to pay for anything and she knows that my dad recently had surgery and just now got back to work but this evening she had the audacity to tell me that somebody was invited to the wedding and then randomly she asked if my dad was going to be walking me down the aisle. My dad and I have had just as rocky of a relationship as me and my mom. My dad and I recently reconciled so when she asked if he was going to be walking me down the aisle I said yeah I like probably so he’s my dad and then she was like OK well he’s not offering to pay for anything but yet he gets the glorification of walking you down the aisle he gets the glory of that moment with you and that’s not fair I’m just really upset right now because I don’t know what to do I can’t seem to make her happy and it’s making a whole planning process miserable to the point where I’m dreading my wedding what do I do do you have any advice I’ve tried to tell her how I feel I’ve posted pictures of our recent conversation below.