So my mom hates being social. She never goes to parties or weddings and even skips out on funerals; my family and I are always making excuses for her. She even missed her granddaughter's birthday party (it was small probably less than 10 people) because my sister's in-laws were there and my mom is afraid to talk to them.
My fiance and I planned an elopement with just us two and his parents and I did not extend the invite to my parents because of her issues and my dad also hates traveling (flew once since the 80s and he hated every second of it).
I feel guilty not inviting them and I know my mom has always wanted to go to the country we are eloping to but she will be weird towards my in-laws and refuse to take pictures and make me anxious.
Should I extend an invitation?