I'm getting remarried next year and my mom is not showing any interest in wanting to be involved with any planning ( She wasn't the first time around either). First time around we never went more dress shopping or anything like that together. This time I want to do those things. Her big concern is money. She's not well off and I told her we are covering everything. She feels even spending $30 on a dress is too much less a hundred. She told me she always had hand-me-down dresses and there's no dress to hand me down. She says " I don't know how you can sit there and spend that much money on stuff for one day when I can't even retire and make ends meet" Mind you I do help her financially when she needs it. She likes my fiance and has given her blessing, I just don't get why shes acting this way. She's in her late 60s but acts like she's 80.
Any thoughts or strategies to get her more involved?