Hi everyone. My wedding is just over 30 days away on April 10. My fiancé and I have been together for 9 years and got engaged right before the pandemic started so needless to say it’s been a very hard experience to go through as the engagement and wedding planning has felt depressing a lot of the times with covid. Now that it’s getting closer and my fiancé is fully vaccinated, with my mom and I just getting ours, I am feeling more excited and ready about the big day doing last minute errands.
The issue is that my dad passed away in September from liver disease suddenly (within 3 months) and it’s been very hard on our family. I’m an only child. My mom has been through a lot in the last year and I understand her grief is different from mine because she lost her husband of 30 years versus me losing a parent. The problem that I am having is that she just has no interest in our wedding and she makes me feel sad when I am around her.
She never asks us anything about the wedding or seems to care about it. One night she had a breakdown and said she doesn’t care about anything anymore and ever since I’ve not mentioned the wedding at all. My dad would have wanted me to enjoy my wedding and be happy so that’s what I am trying to do. But I am worried my mom is going to bring me down that day because she’s so mentally disconnected whenever we are around her.
I’m not trying to dismiss her grief but this is supposed to be a happy time in my life snd even if she has to fake being happy for the next month I just really need it right now. It’s so hard to talk to her about anything in general now. Just need to vent in case anyone can relate.
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