Hi! I know there are a few threads about stepparent role in the actual ceremony and reception but there's already tension building and we haven't even booked a venue yet smh lol
My mom & dad have been separated for over 20 years and my dad and stepmom have been married for 18 years. My stepmom and I had a rocky relationship to start but as I've gotten older, we've gotten much closer to the point that she invited me on a weeklong vacation this summer as kind of as her adult partner instead of my dad to help chaperone my younger sisters and their friends. Her and my mom have never gotten along, while my mom and dad are still very friendly.
I've been talking non-stop about my excitement to plan my wedding for years so now that I'm finally engaged, everyone is excited to help. What roles do parents and stepparents play in the planning process? I invited my stepmom to tour a venue with me, my fiance, my dad, and mom next weekend and my mom blew up because she doesn't want to share her only daughter during this process. My mom and I are best friends and closer than close but I also want to be respectful to my stepmom since my dad will be helping with a lot the financing and she's been super supportive of my fiance and I's relationship from the beginning. I'm not really sure what to do.
What planning things would you include them separately on? Together on? Ideas?
Anyone experience this?