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Mom Still Does Their Laundry - Red Flag or Deal Breaker?

Lynnie, on August 13, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 61

We all have to grow up eventually! If you found out your S.O.'s mom still did their laundry, would that be a complete deal breaker? Or just a red flag you might want to address? Red Flag or Deal Breaker? Next Question: Talking to their ex? Back to the Beginning: Red Flag or Deal Breaker? ...

We all have to grow up eventually! If you found out your S.O.'s mom still did their laundry, would that be a complete deal breaker? Or just a red flag you might want to address?

Red Flag or Deal Breaker?


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  • F
    Super April 2019
    Future Mrs. Polar Bear ·
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    Red Flag. They can learn to do their own laundry and what I mean by learn is not me doing it for them but them actually do it themselves.

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  • Nodyia
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    Nodyia ·
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    Red Flag, FH washes his own clothes, he did them wrong but I trained him well now he has more loads to do

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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
    Natalia ·
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    Red flag. My FH has the typical Italian mother that doesn't let her sweet boys do anything around the house. However, mine knows because I have taught him.

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  • K
    Expert February 2020
    Kristina ·
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    Red Flag - It's not a huge deal, I do most of the laundry anyway, because the last time he did laundry, he left a pen in his pants pocket and washed them with my new clothes which were ruined when I went to pull them out of the dryer. Yikes, it sucked so I am happy to do them Smiley smile

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  • Chelsie
    Devoted May 2020
    Chelsie ·
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    Im not bothered over. Once we live together he will start doing his clothes.

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  • Mrscolón
    Super September 2019
    Mrscolón ·
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    RED FLAG. I do most of our laundry though because I would rather just get it done then have it piling up for when "he feels like it" or runs out of socks

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated September 2019
    Jessica ·
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    Red flag. I think it's weird
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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
    Amber ·
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    Red flag, time to break the habit!

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  • Marlena
    Expert June 2020
    Marlena ·
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    Red Flag. I do most the laundry just to get it done and not have it set around forever but he helps every now and then.
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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
    ALYSSA ·
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    Red flag, but I love doing laundry (and he is bad at it when he's tried to help).

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  • Paulette
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    Paulette ·
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    I was married to a mama's boy before and looking back that is a red flag and a deal breaker! You are a grown @#$ man! Do your own laundry!!!

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  • Andrea
    Devoted October 2020
    Andrea ·
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    No worries here. I do all the laundry

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  • Katie
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    Katie ·
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    Red flag and soooooo annoying. It will be expected of you and better squash the expectations that you do everything fast
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  • Jessica
    Expert February 2020
    Jessica ·
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    A red flag

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  • Ashley
    Super November 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Red flag. He started doing his own laundry in college, but we often do it together now.

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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
    Sweet'N'Rhodes ·
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    Red flag.

    But I am safe on that score, as I have seen him do his own. Smiley xd

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  • Tanyia
    Expert February 2020
    Tanyia ·
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    No to the No, No, NO. Red flag. I HATE doing laundry as it is!

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  • Tanyia
    Expert February 2020
    Tanyia ·
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    Yup!! I set/unload the dishwasher, he does the laundry

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  • Anna
    VIP October 2020
    Anna ·
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    That would be a red flag to me. I just. No.

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  • Squeezy Bean
    Devoted June 2023
    Squeezy Bean ·
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    Red flag for me, and we would be having words.
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