I have a week left and as I get closer I think about how my mom has barely been involved. In the beginning she was excited and helping us look for venues and said she was willing to help pay. After the first check she gave us she made a remark about her feeling like everyone is always asking her money. Another convo we had was that I should be mindful she won’t have a lot of money because she had to pay for a divorce lawyer (I’m not going to go with the I’m jealous answer because she’s living with her bf she had during the end of her marriage) and that she also promised my teenage sister a summer trip (they take one every year). I thought the trip response was stupid because if she really wanted to help contribute she could’ve told my sister that a trip would have to be cancelled to help pay for the wedding.
Now let’s fast forward to the present-I’m staying at a hotel closer to the venue. My mom is going to a wedding the day before mine and then wants her and my sister to spend the night so they can get ready and help me the day of. She will be coming over later that night so I feel that she’s not really there for me because we’ll be going to bed by the time she makes it to the hotel. She mentioned that she thought it would be nice if her bf picks us up to take us to the venue the day of.
I’m wondering if I should tell her to just go home and she can come to the hotel to help later if she wants or just have her stay at the hotel with me?
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