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LadyCrystal
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*Monday rant* Need advice uninviting former bridesmaid

LadyCrystal, on August 19, 2013 at 10:17 AM

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I have to uninvite this girl. I posted on here a while ago about the bridesmaid I had who didn't want to get fitted for her dress or tell me her dress size so I could give it to the designer. Then I posted about how she blamed illness, homelessness, work and the economy for not being able to take a...

I have to uninvite this girl. I posted on here a while ago about the bridesmaid I had who didn't want to get fitted for her dress or tell me her dress size so I could give it to the designer. Then I posted about how she blamed illness, homelessness, work and the economy for not being able to take a picture of herself to send for the designer (during that conversation she dropped out of the wedding)

Fast forward to last night, I go on instagram and see pictures of items that she's been sewing to sell to friends. Someone commented on her picture "Where is the skirt you were supposed to make for me?" She responded " Oh I need your measurements or at least your skirt sze to make it"

WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAT?!?!?! Are you kidding me? You pretended you didn't know what measurements where when I asked you for them? Final straw.

Now, how do I go about uninviting her?

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  • ECM
    Master November 2013
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    LOL I have ways of adding it, but none that won't get me flagged.

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  • vngb
    Super October 2010
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    @ECM - that is awesome Smiley winking

    @LadyCrystal - I see no reason why you can't just lay it out for her in an email or something. List out only factual information, nothing that you are "reading between the lines", but do include anything that she posts publically to facebook or whatever that you can see.

    Then just tell her "I am really hurt that you consistantly tell me one thing and do another, especially when I can read your posts clearly on an open, public internet site like facebook. This is not how I expect to be treated by my friends. I will not allow myself to continue to be treated this way. I wish you all the best, and I'm sorry I won't see you at the wedding."

    ...or something like that.

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  • Marisa-in-Love
    Master July 2014
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    I think everyone here agrees, this girl has GOT to go.

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  • LadyCrystal
    VIP November 2023
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    @vngb Its either going to be an email or a phone call.

    @ECM LOL No flagging over here

    @marisa-in-love oh yeah she does stuff like this all the time. its a constant cycle of negativity. She's only a friend 6 months out of the year. I'm sick of the crap. After 10 years, no more smh

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  • MJ
    Master June 2013
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    Lets not pretend your a friend. Add that to the end of the poem

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  • LadyCrystal
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    FH and I talked about it and he said he doesn't want me to waste any more energy on the situation. You would think that her not receiving an invitation would be more than enough. We have no mutual friends anyway so really I can make a clean break from this "friendship"

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