I was just looking for some advise with money during planning wedding and the relationship in general. When we first started dating i was out of town and my boyfriend wanted to get a switch and they never had it anywhere. I found it when i was out of town and he said he would pay me back($400). When we first moved in together I paid for all of our furniture since it was going on my wayfair credit card and then i could pay it off, this was around $400. We went on a vacation this past summer and i paid for our hotel for the week because it was under my name ($800). We then went and booked our wedding venue and i paid out the deposit ($800) as well as all of the other wedding decor adding up around $400. this has all come out of my account and he has never paid it back. that around $3200 divided by 2 which would be $1600 that would split the costs down for everything. I am not sure how to present the question of when or how he is going to pay me back for these things.( i get that hes gonna be my husband and shouldnt have to pay me back for shared expenses but its not shared he says he will pay it back and then does not. and its completely coming from my own income. We also split the bills up and he pays 50% and i pay 50%. My question really is how do i approach the question of when he can pay me back or if he is, as well as i honestly question where all of this money is going. like all of my paychecks go to paying off debt, bills, and school all he pays in his half of the bills so thats like a thousand not accounted for yet we are somehow coming up short on our bills every month. This has caused my credit score to drop because he never pays me back for things and i have to end up forking over the cc payment and sometimes i cannot make it til after a week or so over due.
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