Hey all
My FH and I went to look at venues yesterday and we brought his mom along with us. We looked at the most perfect venue for us. It was absolutely gorgeous and everything we wanted, and we were going to book it. But his mom told us not to, and that she wanted to look at more and talk to her friend about it.
At this venue, she talked about having gardenia flowers, her favorite flowers(not mine though!)
Then I was talking about having a little set-up that just tributes to the people that recently passed in our lives(my two gpas, and his gpa and gma), and she is wanting to add her friends and her aunt and uncle to it! I know that sounds awful of me, but I don’t know those people, and neither does my FH..
I feel like she is trying to make this wedding her own. I appreciate the help she has given so far since my mother lives out of town and it’s nice to have motherly advice. But she is taking it way too far! She’s trying to plan it like it’s her and not ours. She even tried to pick up my bridal dress and tried to invite her friends that we don’t know who they are to our wedding!! I don’t know what to do. My FH says that it’s our wedding and we don’t have to do anything we don’t want to, but I’m not sure how to tell her no.
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