Hello everyone!
I’m at a loss at what to do now. We’ve decided to cancel our engagement party that was set for Jan. due to covid cases rising in our area. We don’t feel it’s safe to have one at this time, and the hosts will throw us on next fall.
That being said, my mom is now upset and thinks we did this because we’re siding with my fiancé’s family. (His brother and SIL were the hosts and the SIL is now 5months pregnant). A lot of drama and miscommunication was involved in planning this party and I’m honesty relieved that we’re cancelling.
I’m just frustrated and hurt because once again my mom has brought up this idea she has in her head. She thinks we like his family more and that it’s family against family, when it’s not. I’ve explained to her multiple times that this isn’t the case, but she isn’t getting it.
Any advice on how to handle this. It hurts mine and my FH’s feelings that she thinks this way of us when it’s far from the truth.
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