I'll make this short since I can't fit the whole story on here. My mother was super excited about my sister getting engaged this past December. I got engaged in February and my mother didn't seem pleased about it at all. She wasn't happy that I had called my dad first (she was on a business trip, I didn't know. My dad talks on speakerphone, that's why I called him). I feel really disappointed that my mother was always talking about my sister and her wedding, but almost refuses to talk about mine. She has since stopped talking about anything wedding related and gives me one word answers when I try to update her. I thought she was stressed about financial support for both my sister and I, so I asked my parents not to pay for anything for my wedding since my sister wants the fairy tale wedding and I prefer simple. Still no dice. I feel like my (first and hopefully only) wedding isn't as important to her as my sister's (second) wedding is. End rant.